Grace is napping so I wanted to hurry and write about all the random things going on lately, instead of just "events".
-Ryan leaves on his first interview trip in a week from today and I'm so excited for him! I'm grateful that he'll check 3 interviews off in one trip, and that it's saving us SO MUCH money. He's a little nervous just because his very first interview of the season is his top choice pick (Columbus) so he's hoping he doesn't mess up since he won't have had an practice at that point. I know he'll do great. :) I'm also selfishly excited that I'll have my own car for the 4 days he's gone, hehe.
-I'm 22 weeks along right now and feeling pretty good! I am sleeping better at night (only waking up a couple times, not having to get up to use the bathroom very often, and usually able to fall back to sleep quickly), and Dr. Galin (our favorite OMT doc) spent 30 minutes fixing my sacrum pain the other day.
-Speaking of baby, though... Ryan and I met with a perinatologist (Dr. Masaki) last week who explained that my chances for going into preterm labor are 6 times higher than a typical pregnancy. They measured my cervix (sorry if that's TMI for anyone) with a super detailed image they can take, and apparently it's pretty thin (less than 3 cm thick). With that number as a guide, and my previous experience with having Grace at 36 weeks, the doctor is recommending I get a progesterone shot every week from now until 36 weeks. He says it's very safe and very commonly used these days with women who have preterm labor issues, and it's extremely successful. The progesterone is a "smooth muscle relaxant" which takes the stress off the cervix so it stops thinning and dilating so quickly. I have more research to do, another appointment with him next week where he'll measure again, and then we'll decide. But ultimately we both feel like if it will ensure a full-term baby (at least 37 weeks) and a HEALTHY one, with no time in the NICU, then it'll be worth a yucky shot in the bum for 14 weeks. :) If anybody who reads this knows anything about the progesterone shot, please let me know! I'd love to hear some personal experiences.
-Grace turns TWO YEARS OLD in a month from yesterday. That is just craziness - she is still my baby. And yet she's such a big girl in so many ways, and learning so much, that I guess I've considered her to be 2 for the last few months. I'm so excited for her birthday, and for the gift we got for her already, but I admit I'm really not excited about planning a birthday party. We might just do cake and ice cream with friends and not make it a huge deal... but then I think I'd feel guilty not doing something "fun". I know she won't remember, but she'll see pictures... and I'll feel bad. Maybe my major hang-up is that our wonderfully talented, party-planning friends here in Henderson always set a high bar with every party they put on (which is often, between birthdays, holidays, book clubs, and baby showers). I can't and don't want to plan anything so amazing and detailed, so I don't know yet what we'll do.
-If anybody is going through old baby boy clothes, blankets, etc please keep us in mind! :) We have had some wonderful hand-me-downs for Grace and we are always grateful for anything people offer. I did go through Grace's baby stuff today and found lots of burp clothes, a few light blankets, tons of onesies, and some bibs that can be used for baby boy, so that made me happy. :) I'm having a hard time deciding "the best way" to go about purchasing things for him though. I want to start now and buy things slowly so it's not a huge hit to the budget all at once, but I don't know where to start. I did buy our first package of diapers and it got me so excited! I honestly can't wait to have a little baby in the house again! I hope the next few months go by quickly.
-Our ward trunk-or-treat is a huge deal every year. I've helped plan and put on the last 3 and it's always been a really fun activity to be a part of and to attend. This year, with the changes in how the activities are planned, the group in charge this year decided they aren't doing the chili cook-off. :( Huge bummer. There won't be any dinner at all, and I would think the majority of the ward is sad about that. Maybe we'll just have to host our own chili night before the trunk-or-treat and have our friends over just so it feels more normal. Then again wasn't I just saying I didn't want to plan a birthday party for Grace? hahaha Hm....
-Our garbage disposal cracked last week, which apparently happens pretty often when they are old. Every time we turned it on it would spray water out the bottom of the sink and was soaking everything underneath it with yucky, foody water. It smelled like rotten fish!! Ultimately it was how I found the problem, so that's good - but not a fun thing to have soaked into everything under your sink. Yuck! Ryan was good to me and cleaned most of it up, and the maintenance dude came to replace it the next day. HOWEVER... he must have done something to the pipes underneath the sink because now when we turn on our dishwasher there is a geyser of water shooting out of the extra faucet hole to the right of our cold water handle (make sense?). It took us a few days to figure out that's what kept happening, because we would turn on the dishwasher while we were asleep and come out in the morning to find everything absolutely soaked on our counter tops. It was driving me mad for days not knowing what was leaking or spilling, until I had the dishwasher running yesterday while I was cooking in the kitchen and the geyser started up again! haha It's funny to think about ... but we're still waiting for the maintenance guy to come back and fix it. Until then we're hand-washing all our dishes. I hope he comes soon!!
-We're also going tonight to the little Halloween activity fair up the street from us with some friends, and Ryan and I are both really excited! We went last year and Grace was so little she couldn't do anything. This year hopefully she'll do the swings ride and the bounce house, and I think she'll have a blast. On saturday night we went to the District at Green Valley for dinner at Lucille's Smokehouse BBQ (one of our favorite places) with a gift card we'd been given. Ryan and I got this deal for 2 which includes an appetizer, a huge platter of tri-tip, smoked chicken, 2 kinds of ribs, 2 sides, and then a big dessert to share. We were seriously in heaven. Even me, who doesn't love to just sit an eat lots of meat like that, I was totally keeping up with my man in the meat department. I guess baby boy needed some protein... Anyway afterwards we went to ride the carousel which is free and you can ride as many times as you want. I don't know why it's taken us so long to take Grace there, but we are totally going to go more now! It was so fun and Grace giggled, waved, pet her horse, and chose a couple other animals to ride on before we left. I absolutely love fun family times like that and am grateful that we can have another fun family activity tonight as well.
p.s. The last of our Salt Lake trip is posted below...